Sunday, May 22, 2016

Determination and Persistence


This is a real life story of engineer John Roebling building the Brooklyn Bridge in New York, USA back in 1870. The bridge was completed in 1883, after 13 years.
In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.
Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built.
Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.
The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was also injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to talk or walk.
“We told them so.” “Crazy men and their crazy dreams.” “It’s foolish to chase wild visions.”
Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roeblings were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built.
In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever. He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task.
As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment.
It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.
He touched his wife’s arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.
For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife’s arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man’s indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.
Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.
Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realised with determination and persistence, no matter what the odds are.


Thursday, March 31, 2016

INVEST IN YOURSELF


One of the best investments you can make in life is to invest in yourself. Contrary to what people think, it is not a selfish act. In fact, by making your life better, you will improve the lives of others around you. Investing in yourself is the best way to ensure that you are well-taken care of in the future, too. Being physically and mentally in good shape makes you happier and improves your chances of financial success. Who are the most financially successful people you know? Chances are that there is a correlation between financial success and personal qualities (e.g. being smart, optimistic, mentally alert, active and sociable).


Why is investing in yourself so important? Besides being the person you are the most time with, you are also the best example of seeing an immediate return on investment. Have you ever invested in an extra hour of sleep and noticed immediately how much better you felt? Have you ever invested a little extra money each month into a savings account to find that you had a comfortable cushion when you needed it? Unlike other investments, investing in yourself is never a risk, because it always pays off.


Spending money on yourself is a good idea if you are likely to get a return on your investment through increased income or opportunities. Education is the most obvious form of investment in yourself, but there are others, such as:


1. Investing in new skills: Your education doesn’t have to stop at university. Not only does learning a new skill help keep your resume fresh, but it can help you discover new passions and interests in life. Take advantage of professional development opportunities at your current job or take a class in a creative field you’re interested in, like painting or writing. You may be surprised what you learn and where your new skill set takes you. Check out Coursera, Open Culture, Alison, TED Talks, and so many online that help in learning new skills.


2. Investing in your health: Usually exercise and proper eating are the first things to go when other priorities pop up. But that makes investing in your health even more important. And being healthy is the best way to ensure your other investments in life (like taking care of your family and being productive at work) keep up. Investing in your health can be as simple as a having a healthy breakfast each morning. It could mean taking walks after dinner or signing up for that personal training class that you have always wanted. Do something daily to invest in your health and you will be sure to reap wonderful returns. For example, join a gym or sports club, or hire a personal trainer. Physical fitness is known to aid mental alertness, a ‘can do’ attitude and increased stamina and can therefore result in improved performance at work and greater prospects for promotion.


3. Creating the right mind-set by increasing motivation and overcoming negative influences such as stress and depression: Spending money on a meditation course, motivational books and seminars, or psychological counselling are examples of how to invest in your mind-set. Having a positive mind-set means you are more likely to spot opportunities and follow up on them.


4. Building networks of friends and contacts: Your network is your net worth. By joining clubs, networking groups or community organizations, you can build on your circle of influence. Having a wide circle of influence can pay off through increased business referrals or new business and employment opportunities.


5. Doing the things you love: Spending money on hobbies, interests and your passions has a much stronger and longer lasting effect on happiness than spending money on possessions. Giving to others can also be a source of happiness. Happiness goes along with a positive, optimistic mind-set that leads to success.


6. Investing in your future (like your retirement): The most literal way to invest in yourself is, of course, investing! Contributing regularly to your future – specifically your retirement account – is one of the smartest ways to make sure that you have a sound and secure future.


What other things can you do to invest in your future? Let us know in the comments.